We built something to help you succeed.
This course is complete and contains everything you need to transform your relationship. However, it is a real commitment and life is messy, and through the ups and downs couples can get stuck. This is why we built the Course Coach, to be there during those moments when things get hard, so that getting stuck becomes a pause rather than the end.
You can find the Course Coach at the bottom corner of every course page. For one week after buying the course, you can also join as a founding member and get the Coach for life at the lowest price it will ever be offered.
A coach with you every step of the way.
The course lays out every step. The questions come later, in the middle of real life: Did we write that pact the way it was meant? Was that a real pause or just walking away? The Coach knows the course inside and out, has a deep knowledge of the research supporting its methods, and it knows right where you are in it and answers in seconds, at any hour.
Ask it when you’re:
- Stuck on an exercise.
- Wanting a second look at how you answered a worksheet.
- Not sure which step fits something that just happened.
- Wanting clarity when interpreting an exercise or definition differently.
What makes the Course Coach actually helpful.
- 01
Remembers you.
What you've told it, your patterns and your progress, so you never start from scratch.
- 02
Knows when to send you elsewhere.
It says plainly when something needs a therapist or a safety resource rather than a technique.
- 03
Knows the course and the research behind it.
Every step, every worksheet, and the science they're built on.
- 04
Answers what a course can't.
A course speaks to everyone. The Coach answers about your fight, your worksheet, and what happened just last night.
“Last month you called this one The Spiral, and Sam said the hard part was feeling criticized. This sounds like that again.”
Why would we need lifetime access?
The course takes about eight weeks. Your relationship continues on, and it won’t always follow the plan. Six months from now there’s a move, or a new baby, or a stretch where you’re both exhausted, and the old fight finds its way back in. That’s when you open the Coach and pick up where you left off, with a refresher whenever you need one.
And when we publish the next guide, the Coach comes with it. You won’t pay for it twice.
Around fifty real conversations, which we expect to last most couples well over a year.
The Coach holds the pattern between you, so it is the same conversation whoever opens it. Each of you signs in with your own login.
One payment covers the Coach across the whole library as it grows.
Offer window open for one week from course purchase and while places last.
Paid once, with no subscription. The Coach opens for both of you straight away, on every page of the course.
At $20 a month, $97 pays for itself before the end of your fifth month.
The same 30-day guarantee as the course. If within 30 days you don’t believe the Coach was worth well more than you paid, email us and we’ll refund you in full. No forms, no exit interview.
No thanks, take me to the course
Payment is taken by Stripe. One membership covers you and your partner. Fair use is thirty messages a day, and lifetime means the lifetime of the product, as set out in the terms. We don’t read your conversations, and they’re never used to train AI. The shared conversation is for the two of you, and each of you has a private conversation for any safety-related questions.
